Who controls your happiness?

Who really controls your happiness?
I have seen people agitated, irritated, sad and sulking because they are not happy.
Most of the times our ( including me) happiness is controlled by a "third Party" and very often it difficult to draw a direct corelation between somebody else's action and our reaction to it.

I am unhappy because my friend promised me something and didn't do it.
It's reaaly dissappinting to know that Rahul didn't call me

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  1. Ashish VermaApril 9, 2009 at 9:49 PM

    “Happiness and sorrow are just same situation perceived differently” So one has to perceive rightly.
    Our emotional reaction/ behavior are not creations of our sole self (Soul) but reciprocation of what we perceive by external infuencials. At core we are not aware what WE actually Want/Feel - the Real food/desire of SELF.
    If we can think once detached of influences, we will enjoy every bit of life.

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